Proud to be an introvert

Proudly referring to myself part of the introverts group today, I can honestly say I started this blog because of it. I find writing to you a meaningful way to spend my time. I use my blog to share with you my favourite artists, new artists and freelancer I meet on social media, insights that helped me through life as well as business and stationery or tech that I love. It is the perfect outlet for me to express what’s on my introvert mind. Writing is soothing for me, and sharing is simply a must in my life as interacting with others genuinely makes me happy. However, I wasn’t always proud of being an introvert.

Growing up, I faced pressure to engage in extroverted activities and received countless tips on boosting confidence, as I’m sure many of you have experienced as well. It took time to realise that my introversion was not a flaw; I was just different than people expected me to be. You would expect more understanding towards introverts as estimates suggest that approximately 30% to 50% of the population identifies as introverted. I value solitude and intimate conversations and I prefer to observe at parties, being myself as far away from the dance floor as I can. Over time, I’ve come to cherish these characteristics about myself. While some may still view me as unconventional, I stopped having the longing to be like everyone else. Understanding that introversion is just as valuable as extraversion has led me to meet like-minded individuals effortlessly. There’s an instant rapport, as if we’re speaking the same language, reaffirming that there’s a place in this world for every personality type.

Introverts leaders

If you’re doubting your own awesomeness or your potential to succeed in the business world, let me introduce you to some prominent figures whose journeys might change your perspective on introverts.

Some of the perks and traits of being introverts

Traveling the worlds within

Far too often, I witness brilliant minds go unnoticed, undervalued because most of the time, they too think that they should shape shift into something mainstream. And I get it, in today’s fast-paced world, it’s particularly challenging for introverts to maintain visibility, especially on social media. I admit, I’m still navigating this landscape myself, but rather than focusing solely on my own presence, I find fulfillment in supporting fellow creatives and freelancers to shine. Perhaps that’s an inherent trait of introverts—preferring to empower others rather than seek the limelight for oneself.

However, social media isn’t entirely negative. While it’s often utilised for self-promotion and seeking attention, it also provides a platform for meaningful interactions and idea exchange among introverted individuals. Recently, I had an interesting conversation with an artist whose brother was a writer. Through his work, I could see that he had meaningful things to say. But being an introvert in today’s world demands the courage to step out of your comfort zone and share your inner self with the world. Inspired by this encounter, I felt compelled to write this article, hoping to ignite a sense of empowerment within fellow introverts. I want them to realise the incredible potential residing within them and encourage them to embrace their unique strengths.

Tailoring your work to suit you as an introvert

Contrary to common misconceptions, introverts possess a multitude of qualities that are well-suited for business endeavours. We bring unique strengths to the table, we just have to think a bit more contemplation in our decision-making processes so we can excel in the (business) world. I will share with you some opinions and practical strategies that might help you out to create your perfect workflow.

Establishing a home office sanctuary

First of all, I think most freelancers are introverts because they have the ability to structure their day autonomously, free from the typical office dynamics. Am I right? I remember being hired as a freelancer in a company, and the “monday-morning-how-was-your-weekend” meeting was agony for me. I was there to work, not to forcefully share my private life with small talk. So if you have an inclination that you’re an introvert, it might be time for you to try working from your own quiet haven at home. I love my quiet organised workspace, I can listen to my own music and I do not have to follow the schedule of others. My productivity comes when I’m focussed and relaxed in my own environment. I think you’ll see a change in your work too, maybe a place that will lead to the creation of your most inspired work yet?

Leveraging social media as introverts

Social media serves as a powerful tool for introverts to engage with potential clients without too much discomfort. I’m not that old, but I do remember the days I forced myself to do cold calling to promote one my start-up. The nerve-racking experience of pitching to strangers over the phone is one I’ll never forget. Obviously, it wasn’t something I enjoyed, it wasn’t me. Thankfully, platforms like Instagram and Twitter provide a space to showcase your work without feeling the anxiety and sweat on your forehead.

Social media serves as a powerful tool for introverts to engage with potential clients without too much discomfort. I’m not that old, but I do remember the days I forced myself to do cold calling to promote one my start-up. The nerve-racking experience of pitching to strangers over the phone is one I’ll never forget. Obviously, it wasn’t something I enjoyed, it wasn’t me. Thankfully, platforms like Instagram and Twitter provide a space to showcase your work without feeling the anxiety and sweat on your forehead.

Talk about your superpowers

In client interactions, don’t hesitate to openly acknowledge your introversion. I have told teachers back in the days that I don’t do presentations well because of that reason. Transparency can create more understanding and can make you feel more comfortable your professional relationships. People are quick to judge and can misunderstand your pensiveness for arrogance or your directness for rudeness. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying you should justify yourself, people will make their own assumptions anyway and you shouldn’t care about what they think. But, if you feel like it could benefit the relationship, you should be proud and confident to tell them you have super powers.

And if you have extra time, educate the extravert about us. Being an introvert does not mean we are anti-social, it means we’re pro-solitude.

Seek support and collaboration

As an introvert you might think you’re alone finding your battle, but the opposite is true. People (introverts and extraverts) like to help each other out, so don’t be afraid to ask. Reaching out for assistance can lead to invaluable growth opportunities. Whether it’s seeking feedback on projects or proposing collaboration, sharing your challenges and ideas nurtures innovation and creative processes. Remember, it’s okay to ask others for support—it’s a testament to your strength, not a sign of weakness.

Sophie Carefull

Speaking of assistance, I would love to take a moment and introduce Sophie, a dedicated coach specialising in supporting creative introverts. Sophie specialises in helping individuals like you navigate the challenges of marketing your work in a way that feels both manageable and enjoyable. Be sure to check out her website for valuable insights, and if you’re seeking inspiration, consider following her on Instagram.

Temporarily closed for spiritual maintenance

While engaging with the outside world is an important part of your professional life, your need for solitude to recharge your battery is also essential. I absolutely love meeting new people, joining conferences, visiting my clients headquarters but after just a day of social activities, I have to take a break and be alone again with my own thoughts. Balancing social engagements with periods of introspection allows you to recharge and maintain your well-being. Take breaks as needed, practice self-care and come out feeling refreshed and ready to face the world again.

Conclusion

In the midst of extroverted energy, it’s easy to feel overshadowed and doubt your own potential. But let me remind you, there’s no one quite like you. It may sound like a cliché, but take a moment to observe the world around you—you’ll realise the truth in this statement. Introverts have the most amazing inner worlds, offering a unique perspective that enriches our lives when shared. Whether it’s a business idea, artworks, a line of code that simplifies a thousand, a fresh approach on any subject, words that express something you couldn’t explain yourself, introverts have great intuitions and have created great work for centuries.Trust in your abilities and allow us to witness the beauty of your inner mind. Believe in yourself, for you are truly remarkable.